http://lyndamartens.com/2010/03/slowing-down-the-process-a-relationshiplife-skill/ The personal site and blog of Lynda Martens Tue, 17 Jan 2012 21:32:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://lyndamartens.com/2010/03/slowing-down-the-process-a-relationshiplife-skill/comment-page-1/#comment-59 Charmaine Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:55:11 +0000 http://lyndamartens.com/?p=343#comment-59 I read somewhere that when people put you on the spot and make you feel uncomfortable to just smile and say "why do you ask that?" I tried it a few times and it really shut them down! It works. But you must smile! It throws them off. I read somewhere that when people put you on the spot and make you feel uncomfortable to just smile and say “why do you ask that?” I tried it a few times and it really shut them down! It works. But you must smile! It throws them off.

]]> http://lyndamartens.com/2010/03/slowing-down-the-process-a-relationshiplife-skill/comment-page-1/#comment-58 Jono Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:40:22 +0000 http://lyndamartens.com/?p=343#comment-58 ... "I don't get it, tell me more" "What do you mean by that?" … “I don’t get it, tell me more”
“What do you mean by that?”

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